Tag Archives: Ambition

The Journey

I traveled the long road through the tunnel of despair, depression and self-doubts, and emerged a better person. The journey while difficult was worth it because  you must look despair squarely in the eye to find yourself and at the of my journey I had rediscovered myself.  I realized that receiving the accolades of others, being recognized for my achievements may have made me happy but was not the key to my happiness.  I realized that while I was looking for validation from society the only validation I needed is from with-in. Gone was the fear of failure because I may fail again and its place was the resolve to move forward and seize the possibilities the future holds. I no longer put on a face for the world to believe I was happy but show my real face because I am happy. For in traveling the road back I found the keys to being truly happy, belief  in myself and what I can accomplish. The journey may have been arduous but it helped me to find the strength to discover myself and to believe in my potential.

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Positivity trimpuths over Negativity every time

I will not allow negatively to rule my life.  I reject the thoughts of despair and refuse to look at the glass as half empty.  I embrace positivity and the possibilities of a brighter future. I will be thankful for what I do have. I will see the glass as half full and realize my positive attitude will allow me to overfill that glass with happiness. Because:

Negativity represents

Nothingness
Emptiness
Grounded
Abandonment
Troubled
Ignorance
Vexed
Indecisiveness
Torment
Yielding

While positivity represents

Possibilities
Opportunity
Success
Inspiration
Triumph
Intellect
Vision
Imagination
Thinker
Yes I can

Live your life positive and the possibilities are endless

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Mondays a fresh new canvass

It’s Monday the start of a new week a call to action to embrace new opportunities, to strive to be better today then I was yesterday. I will not be jaded by setbacks from my past.  I will use them as learning experiences and inspiration to overcome any adversity that may come my way moving forward.

Mondays are a fresh new canvass waiting for me to paint my future on.  I will not paint it in black and white rather I will use bold strokes and daring colors. I will not remain within the lines that society says I must instead I will paint outside the lines with the knowledge that nothing is impossible if I dare to dream.

Monday a blank canvass, a new beginning, a chance to seize the possibilities of greatness.

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The NFL gets the anthem thing wrong again

Today the NFL issued a statement stating that NFL owners have unanimously approved a new national anthem policy that requires players to stand if they are on the field during the performance but gives them the option to remain in the locker room if they prefer. 

This policy sadly misses the point.  Hijacked by the President the original intent of the protest was never about the anthem. The anthem in this case is simply a means to an end used as the “prop” to bring to light the injustices perpetuated on on people of color on a daily basis. In fact one could say without the anthem there could have been a stage for the protest. 

This action serves one purpose. Silencing the voice of protest by shoving it in a locker room. 

NFL players should respond in kind with a statement stating: We see opting to stay in the locker room during the anthem as a true sign of disrespect. Kneeling during the anthem is our peaceful way of shedding light on the treatment of people of color by a segment of the population while at the same time maintaining respect for the flag and those service men and women who have fought under it to continue to maintain our way of life.  We stand with them and all Americans or as James Baldwin so eloquently stated: I love America more than any other country in this world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually.

You are what you think you are

Life is a self fulfilling prophecy.
You are what you think you are.
You’ll accomplish what you believe you can. Focus only on the negatives in your life you’ll
never tap into all the positives and unleash your full potential.
Think you can’t do something and it becomes a
given that you won’t.
When you believe you are worth it and that you can accomplish anything you’re life will take a turn for the better. After all your life is what you make it

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So you’re saying there’s a chance.

So you’re telling me there’s a chance
– Lloyd (dumb and dumber)

Has there ever been truer words uttered when it comes to reaching our full potential. We are presented with endless opportunities in business, love and life in general some of those opportunities may seem unattainable but what we have to learn is that if there is even the smallest chance at seizing that what we thought was unattainable then we should go for it. It is no fun going through life wondering what if. Maybe we don’t accomplish what we set our mind to. So what, at least we will never wonder what would have happened if we just tried. And more importantly with every effort we make successful or not our fear of failure diminishes and we learn and grow from it. Making the next opportunity feel less unattainable and the more likely we will attempt to grab hold of it opening up our lives to the full potential it was meant to be.