Monthly Archives: December 2014

They are still trying to change the narrative

Since in my opinion this has become an ugly game of tit for tat politics that has totally obscured the real issues this will be my last say on this.

So just to be clear and I think we all can agree here because the overwhelming majority of police officers are good people it is wrong to call out the wrongs of a few select individuals who happen to wear a police uniform and demand equal justice for all people because by doing so you are purportedly anti police, wish ill will toward all and believe all police are racist

Also, again just to be clear, it is right and I think we can all agree here as well because a few select people in an overwhelmingly peaceful crowd call for violence and act out in violent ways to label an entire movement as violent and anti-police because if you don’t you are purportedly siding on the side of lawlessness and anarchy.

Did I get that right?

Hmmm, seems a bit contradictory doesn’t it? Seems like they are still trying to change the narrative to force you to take sides when there really are no sides. Seems like they are trying to change the narrative to suit their political agenda and drive up their ratings. But no matter what they do at the end of the day the truth is the truth. We need police and the overwhelming majority of those who call for justice are pro police, respect the courage they show every day simply by putting on the uniform, and really only want to see the rotten apples among them removed so that their overall reputation is not marred by the acts of a few individuals – hear the word people individuals. Not an entire department – individuals.

It’s time to wake up people, time to stop letting people who only gain financially from our division guide the discussion. Time to understand that it’s one planet and we all have to live on it. Time to stop choosing up sides like this a game of stickball and start understanding that we are all on the same team.

I Love You – Not Just A Mechanical Wave Of Pressure

I love you.

Just three little words but the sound of them can be so powerful they can awaken the deepest emotions in anybody. But let’s step back for a second and think about this. When someone says I love you what is that really? What are you experiencing at the very momeWave of pressurent you hear it? Have you ever thought about it? Have you ever looked back with your heart in a million pieces and realized when they said I love you they really didn’t mean it? You see when someone says I love you all you are experiencing at that moment is the sound of their voice nothing more nothing less. And what is the sound of their voice? It is simply a vibration that propagates as a mechanical wave of pressure and displacement through some medium such as air or water. Not very romantic is it? Not really and it’s certainly not something you should give you heart away for.

Truthfully, for I love you to have any power it never can be in just the utterance of the words. For it to have any true meaning it has to also be exhibited in the actions one shows another. Actions that bring it life, Actions that bring it a feeling of emotions no words could ever match. The actions don’t have to be big and bold, just the smallest will do. The trading of a smile across a crowded room; the holding of a hand on a crowded street; the look in your eye when you see them for the first time that day; Small actions, unconscious actions, actions that likely go unnoticed to all in the crowd but the two of you. But actions when shared between you and the person you love scream I love you. No words uttered, no sound passing through the air. That’s what I love you really is and that without a doubt is better than any mechanical wave of pressure and displacement ever could be.

Merry Christmas

We come to this Christmas day with dark clouds swirling all around us, divided as a people, hatred seemingly waiting around every corner. But we also come to this day with the power to summon the true meaning of the season from with-in each of our hearts. So let us not dwell on the painful times behind us but rather let us use them as a turning point to joyous times ahead. Let us bring forth the spirit of love, peace and hope and look to our neighbors whomever they may be and wish them good tidings of great joy and peace on earth. Because after all that’s what Christmas is all about.

We must stop the madness -All lives matter


You can not help but be saddened by the senseless murder of two police officers in Brooklyn today. This was not about liberal vs conservative, black vs white. community vs police. This was simply a cowardly reprehensible evil act by a lone individual. We must come together as people to stop the madness, we must understand that all life is precious. That all lives matter. We must stand together as one to denounce those who advocate violence or else there is no hope for any of us.

Blue Lives Matter – Of Course They Do We Never Said They Didn’t

So now we have the hashtag BlueLivesMatter of course they do we never said they didn’t. I speak only for myself but I believe my thoughts are the same as the vast majority of people who have been disheartened by the events in Ferguson and Staten Island. I respect and have never doubted the morals or the courage of the vast majority of men and women who are sworn to protect and serve so that our communities remain safe. If you want to show your support for police departments through #BlueLivesMatter then do so because after all the over whelming majority of police officers deserve it.

But if you are doing so only:
As way of pushing back against the #BlackLivesMatter movement;
As a way to marginalize the very real concerns of that movement;
Because you have been led to believe that those who support that movement don’t think that the lives of police matter;
Because certain media outlets in an effort to pander to the lowest common denominator among their base seek out and put their microphones in front of the few idiots who spew venom and advocate violence or concentrate their cameras on the handful of idiots who commit acts of violence while thousands protest peacefully around them simply demanding equal justice for all;

Then you are doing so for the wrong reasons.

You see it is true Black Lives Matter and it also true that Blue Lives Matter. But what is the ultimate truth is that All Lives Matter. It will not be until we as a species come to understand that will we be able to come together as a people.

Do not let those who do not want to see us come together, those who profit from division not unity frame this discussion. This is not about picking sides. This is about doing what is right. This is about ensuring that all people are treated equally and fairly.

#BlueLivesMatter of course they do we never said they didn’t.

They are trying to change the narrative…Don’t let them

They are trying to change the narrative to marginalize the message and divide the masses don’t let them.

They will point to those killed in the line of duty as if we don’t care about their lives and those they leave behind. They will act is as if this is a game of one-upmanship. We certainly do and it is not.

They will point to the number of blacks killed by blacks and say we should be gravely concerned about that. They will say we should turn a blind eye to other injustices and concentrate on that problem and that problem alone because surely we can not focus on multiple issues at one time. We clearly are and we most definitely can.

They will say our protests are about hatred of the police and not with ensuring that justice is meted out equally and fairly for all people. But it never was about that and it most certainly is.

They will call those who speak out race baiters while it is they who try to divide by making this strictly an issue of black versus white all the while ignoring the rainbow of colors who stand for and cry out for justice.

They are trying to change the narrative to marginalize the message and divide the masses don’t let them.